I use 4 Apple TV boxes and don't have any issues. The Apple TV boxes are all connected through a wired Ethernet network, though. I suppose in your setup, the Apple TV boxes would connect through a wireless network and after some time you won't be able to see them through an App on an iPhone or iPad, like the Apple Remote using Bonjour, Zero-Config. This could be caused by some sesson timeout on the Aruba side, while the Apple TV boxes won't periodically re-authenticate. What is your setup excatly?